• Lucas Santana

In this season of uncertainty, G-D’S, Presence will be with you. You are HIS beloved.

HIS desire is to guide you from this chaotic world to a life of peace, even in the midst of the storms around you. The PRESENCE of G-D will bring you KINGDOM balance. It is HIS peace that you will be stabilized, where the living waters are free to flow, over your soul.

In the PEACE of G-D comes the JOY of the Lord. ONLY if you allow HIM to be your strength. The days ahead must be fulfilled to prepare us for the coming of THE LORD. DO NOT be afraid! Don't allow the enemy to overtake you. Enter into HIS peace, and it shall pour in the time to come even as a river flows.

You will see the reality of the end of days. It is upon you. Do not focus on the turmoil but the reality of the KINGDOM.

Let your heart ring Thy KINGDOM COME, THY WILL BE DONE!

Oh beloved, you will see things from a heavenly perspective and no longer from an earthly view. You will be KINGDOM MINDED. The Spirit of G-D will reveal things to come. You won't be taken by surprise; you will be fully solidified in HIS KINGDOM presence in a profoundly and blessed way. “I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” John 16:33 Receive it, beloved child of G-D. HE LOVES YOU. HE is releasing an anointing of peace to quiet your anxious soul. Breathe HIM into your lungs, let HIM fill you with LIFE and PEACE.

Rest in the assurance of the destiny, G-D has for you. Give ALL your plans, dreams and desires to HIM. Lay them at HIS feet.

HE will bring to pass what HIS DIVINE WILL is for your life.


Isaiah 55:12 For you shall go out with joy, and be led out with peace; the mountains and the hills shall break forth into singing before you, and all the trees of the field shall clap their hands.

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A young woman came into my office she looked worried, beaten down, you could see the fear and anxiety on her face.

She begin describing what her relationship with a narcissist felt like.

Her eyes widen.

It begin like a roller coaster ride it was fun, a lot of fun!

My heart skipped a beat!

An instant flood of emotions overwhelmed me.

Excitement and fear all at once.

is this real? Will I fall? This is so thrilling. I threw up my hands of caution as I reached the top of the ride. I closed my eyes. I never felt anything like this before. And the sex! The sex was amazing. He called himself THE BEAST!

Then it ends.

Suddenly! Abruptly!

Almost without warning. I thought I saw the ending coming. I ignored the signs.

It’s here.

It stopped.

The handle bar lifts, it’s time to get off. Feeling forced I dismount the ride. That was a crazy, exhilarating ride!

I’m going to do it again. I ran between the rails as they twisted and turned my steps. Wait! There’s a line? Others are before me ? I have to wait in line? I have to wait my turn?

I listen to the whispers around me the talking. It’s the first time for some, second third, fourth, fifth time for others. I ignore the whispers...

Oh it’s my turn again. I’m anxious. I know what to expect I’ve been here before.

I get on. I buckle up. The ride begins it’s not the same it is different. The same ride, same car, even the same seat. It’s over! The ride comes to an abrupt stop.

Still scary. Still exciting. But it ended quicker. The effects of the thrill is gone but I find myself getting standing back in line.

Again I hear the whispers. It’s my first time it’s my second time, it’s my sixth time.

I glanced over the railing and I saw others holding their stomach regurgitating declaring, “I will never do that again”! They are the ones who escaped the crazy making of a narcissist and their hovering effecrs, they got away!

As I find myself getting back in line for one more ride.

What I have just described is a relationship with a narcissist and their hovering affect.

The first stage is love bombing. At this stage you are treated with the upmost respect, love and adoration. You feel on top of the world as if you are the only one in the life of the narcissist. You are being groomed to suit their needs.

There are others waiting in line to be love bombed by the narcissist. For some it’s their first time. For others, they consistently wait their turn to be serviced.

It is a world of pretend, make believe. It is methodically planned by the narcissist. You were chosen to take the ride. As a matter of fact everyone standing in line was chosen. Each person offered fuel for the narcissist tank. Some grade A. Some of lesser quality.

This robotic creature is devoid of feelings and emotions. They are incapable of love. They just need fuel to survive. You are the fuel, the place to stay, the identity of worth they need, the sexual toy, the money you give, or the ego you stroke. You gratify their need.

Then comes the fall!

Suddenly, unexpectedly!

But the thrill of the ride, the beckoning of the steel tracks woos you to do it again.

That’s the hovering stage.

The narcissist begins to love bomb their predator over and over again. This time the relationship is shorter, less thrilling but you find yourself yearning to repeat the first feelings of love. You are addicted to the narcissist.

Some people stay in a narcissistic relationship for life. Others are fortunate to get out, vowing never to return.


Don’t go back to a narcissist affair!

Get out! Stay out!

Go no contact! Go grey rock.

You are NOT running away...

You are taking care of your most prized possession. You!

You were only fuel for the narcissistic tank.

They may have been empty, half full or running on a third. They needed you. You were special, chosen to fill them up.

It’s time to leave.

Life with a narcissist does not get better in time. The longer you stay the more you give permission for their NARCISSISTIC ABUSE!

Long term, life with a narcissist affects your health and mental well-being. Their ultimate goal is your death. They hate you! They hate the good in you.

This is Dr. Chapman with Rhema Life Institute.

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  • Lucas Santana

Matthew 18: 15. Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother. 16. But if he will not hear thee, then take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. 17. And if he shall neglect to hear them, tell it unto the church: but if he neglect to hear the church, let him be unto thee as an heathen man and a publican. 18. Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. 19. Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven. 20. For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.

We often hear the scripture quoted “where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.” Matthew 18:20 If we were to keep that scripture in context with the preceding passage, we will see it is the ending scripture on, how to deal with sin in the church. It speaks of brethren coming together to restore a brother who has fallen. The first step was “go tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he hear thee, thou hast gained a brother.” This is unity, one accord.

The second step was “(IF)he does not hear thee, take with thee one or two more….word may be established.” This is an action of choice and… agreement. The agreement there was a wrong done towards the Father and it needs to be corrected. This is unity, one accord.

The third step was “(IF) he neglect to hear (them) tell it to the church” Let the church come to together. Take the brother before the church. “(IF) he neglects to hear the church” further instructions were given. The church must be in unity, of one accord.

The Scripture continues.

“...Whatsoever you bind on earth, shall be bound in heaven...” When there is unity, one accord you can bind and loose both in heaven and on earth. That's POWERFUL! Unity is power.

The Scripture still continues. “(IF) two of you agree on earth as touching anything that they ask, IT SHALL BE DONE FOR THEM...” Can two walk together except they agree? Amos 3:3

Unity, one accord.

Finally, Jesus closes with, “For where two or three are gathered together in my name (one accord, unity) there am I in the midst of them” Carelessly, we quote the last verse of this passage without understanding.

Two things to consider.

(1) The word “IF” means there is a choice involved. God will never force us to make HIS choice for our lives. A choice of unity and oneness.

(2) If your prayers are not being answered or delayed, could it be you are not in unity, one accord. First with GOD, then the Brethren you are agreeing with?

To many of us pray with people we are not walking in agreement with. People who we hide ought in our hearts against. People we don't like, or gossip about. Yet, we pretend in prayer we are in one accord. The passage quotes, where two or three are gathered together IN MY NAME, there am I in the midst.”

Jesus can’t be in the midst of strife and division.

The Holy Spirit can’t teach and guide amid chaos.

The Father is not Glorified!

Let us walk in unity and one accord.

Forgive, let us live in peace with all men.

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